Bajan in Dubai

There’s a saying that “no matter where you are in the world you will find a Bajan”. That’s true even when you’re as far as the United Arab Emirates.

If you happen to take a flight on an Emirates aircraft, or travel to the city of Dubai, you may just catch 23-year-old Melissa Brathwaite, a flight attendant on the prestigious carrier.

Melissa in Emirates uniform on her very first day. 
Melissa in Emirates uniform on her very first day.

Now in her ninth month on the job, Brathwaite said she is having the time of her life and enjoying the new experiences.

“Moving out of my comfort zone and being able to live in the Middle East is actually a very good and new experience . . . It took a long time. As for the job itself, it is very rewarding; you get to travel all over the world,” she said.

Melissa is enjoying life in the Middle East.
Melissa is enjoying life in the Middle East.

Some would say she is brave, but for the soft-spoken young woman, it was just a case of following her dreams. Brathwaite admitted that she never really imagined a career as an airline crew member, but she was certain she wanted to travel the world.

“Studying Geography was also a way of getting to see the world, but actually having this opportunity to travel and see the different places is something very different that I wanted to do – not this career, per se, I just wanted an avenue where I could travel and see the world,” the former UWI Mona student said.

In a Skype interview with Barbados TODAY, Brathwaite admitted she was not sure about the job in the initial stages, since she knew it would have taken her away from home.

“I had seen the advert for it. I didn’t initially take up the offer when I saw it. Then I realized . . . it was a different experience for me and I like different. It’s something I decided could really help me in getting to where I want to be – being able to see different places and so on,” she said. “It’s bittersweet. Home will always be home. I love Barbados. I talk about it so much here, especially since people always ask me about it. But I’ve gotten accustomed to [Dubai]. I’m very grateful to be here as well.”

Melissa on a day off in Dubai.
Melissa on a day off in Dubai.
Melissa enjoys exploring whenever she gets the opportunity.
Melissa enjoys exploring whenever she gets the opportunity.

And of course it helps that she is fulfilling her dream of travelling the world.

“I’ve been to a lot of great places. I’ve been to Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, Paris, United Kingdom so far. My favourite place to date would have to be Singapore because I love the culture, and Paris because of all the historical stuff,” Brathwaite said with a giggle. 

But the life of an air hostess on one of the largest aircraft in the world isn’t just about hopping on a plane and going somewhere new. Brathwaite says her job requires a lot of time management and focus.

“Because you fly at different times, it’s all about time management and how long I can sleep, what time I need to get up and prepare myself to leave home. It’s a lot of thinking, planning; it’s not like if I was working a nine to five and I know I have to be up at seven or so on . . . It’s a lot of planning, a lot of setting alarms. My day comprises time management for almost everything, to see how much I can get done in the day,” she explained.

In her down time Brathwaite explores, although she has not been doing a lot of that recently because of the heat.

“On my off days, as of recently, I have been doing a lot of resting. Flying is tiring so it’s good to get good rest. There are lots of things to do in Dubai so I try to get out of the house often. It’s very difficult now. It’s summer here in Dubai, so it’s very, very hot. We complain about the heat in Barbados but dealing with 43 degrees here is another story,” she said.

Definitely in an exciting career, Brathwaite said she could see herself doing it for a long time to come.

“I don’t have a time frame for it. I don’t see myself leaving or not doing it anytime soon,” she said.

The young Barbadian advises anyone desirous of becoming a flight attendant to pursue it, and should the opportunity present itself grab it with both hands.

“It’s a risk in the sense that you will be far away from the culture that you know and are familiar with, but I believe that any opportunity like this that comes your way is an opportunity you should take. For me at 23, it is very rewarding that I have been able to see so many different places. I know so many people who have never even left Barbados. I believe that any opportunity that you see that you can spread your wings and get to see somewhere different, is an opportunity worth taking. It would be difficult in the initial stages but it’s something you would get accustomed to eventually,” she advised.

And Brathwaite also cautioned others not to judge a place before experiencing it for themselves.

“When you try to read too much into things, it makes you anticipate things that aren’t necessarily true. For me, I did a lot of reading and listening to people before I came to Dubai. But when I got to Dubai I realized it’s so normal, it’s nothing like you would read in books or read online,” she said.

“It’s nothing hard to get accustomed to. It would be hard for you if you don’t know how to respect the culture. That part is fine for me. They aren’t that many boundaries or restrictions once you respect the culture.

“Here is so diverse, they cater to everyone. They are so many people here from all over, so the cuisine here represents that as well,” Brathwaite added. 

33 Responses to Bajan in Dubai

  1. Lilian Lloyd
    Lilian Lloyd August 24, 2016 at 10:54 am


  2. Patricia Dottin
    Patricia Dottin August 24, 2016 at 10:55 am

    I know your mom blushing

  3. Patricia Dottin
    Patricia Dottin August 24, 2016 at 10:55 am

    Only yesterday we spoke about you

  4. Hajra Degia
    Hajra Degia August 24, 2016 at 11:13 am

    So proud of you Melissa.

  5. Julia Robinson
    Julia Robinson August 24, 2016 at 11:16 am

    Everything she says about Dubai is true. People has so many misconceptions. I love duabi, no place on earth like it.

  6. Julia Robinson
    Julia Robinson August 24, 2016 at 11:16 am

    Everything she says about Dubai is true. People has so many misconceptions. I love Dubai, no place on earth like it.

  7. Cindy Rickerby
    Cindy Rickerby August 24, 2016 at 11:26 am

    Good for you young lady. Continue to spread your wings.

  8. Samud Ali
    Samud Ali August 24, 2016 at 11:28 am

    a whole Bajan reggae band was playing up there

    • Safiya Kamaria Kinshasa
      Safiya Kamaria Kinshasa August 24, 2016 at 12:06 pm

      Buggy Buggy Nhakente FullyLoaded and his band loooooool

      not to mention a bajan dj too

    • Samud Ali
      Samud Ali August 24, 2016 at 12:12 pm

      lol i only mentioned it because sometimes i wonder why people are so shocked by Barbadians going places. For 25 years we see the same headlines and no further. I wish the public would stop being in “shock” and just push others to do bigger and better

    • Lexi Kinch
      Lexi Kinch August 24, 2016 at 6:23 pm

      Buggy was the first person to come to mind. I agree. Barbadians live all over the globe.

  9. Lisa Yarde
    Lisa Yarde August 24, 2016 at 11:40 am

    Proud of your achievements

  10. Marc Goodridge
    Marc Goodridge August 24, 2016 at 11:51 am

    Have your adventures while you’re young with no responsibilities.

  11. Mary-anne Redman
    Mary-anne Redman August 24, 2016 at 11:57 am

    There is also our own Dr James Carmichael lecturing in Computer studies at a university there

    • James Carmichael
      James Carmichael August 24, 2016 at 12:08 pm

      Thanks for the mention, Ms Redman. In fact, there are a few Bajan pilots who fly with Emirates Airlines, including Kevin Springer.

    • Mary-anne Redman
      Mary-anne Redman August 24, 2016 at 12:30 pm

      Oh yes …one of our local heroes. …after that plane crash

  12. Dee Bee
    Dee Bee August 24, 2016 at 11:59 am

    There are lots of us here. I love my adopted home

  13. Melissa Brathwaite
    Melissa Brathwaite August 24, 2016 at 12:04 pm

    Thank you all ☺️☺️☺️

  14. Marcia Prescod
    Marcia Prescod August 24, 2016 at 12:36 pm

    I saw your pic before from your mom . I know that she is very proud of you. Well done enjoy your blessings.

  15. Fay Gaskin
    Fay Gaskin August 24, 2016 at 1:08 pm

    Carla Gaskin, this should be of interest to you 🙂

  16. Charmaine Gulstone
    Charmaine Gulstone August 24, 2016 at 1:26 pm

    Congratulations and I wish you every success with your career

  17. Jack O
    Jack O'Neal August 24, 2016 at 1:48 pm

    Such a nice story, happy for you. What a great opportunity for you as a young person, jobs such as flight crew or cruise industry are great for young people.

  18. Alison Ell
    Alison Ell August 24, 2016 at 2:29 pm

    So happy for you, wishing you continue success. Greetings from big bro Raashad n mummy.

  19. Cherylann Bourne-Hayes
    Cherylann Bourne-Hayes August 24, 2016 at 2:49 pm

    I have friends who teach there and love it. Another option as well.

  20. Darrell Catwell
    Darrell Catwell August 24, 2016 at 4:26 pm

    Congratulations. 🙂

  21. Hewley Watson
    Hewley Watson August 24, 2016 at 5:03 pm

    love de article mel. keep up the good work…

  22. Dr. Winston O Clarke August 24, 2016 at 5:48 pm

    That’s my girl. Keep striving in your effort to maximize your potential.

  23. Debbie August 24, 2016 at 7:57 pm

    Barbados and Dubai, two of my favourite places. Enjoy Mellissa.

  24. Margaret Thomas August 25, 2016 at 1:56 am

    There are a few other bajans in Dubai. Margaret, Carol-Ann, Adrian and family, Karen, DeCarla.

  25. Mr Rock USA August 25, 2016 at 4:04 am

    I would also add that Barbadian at home should look a broad for opportunities. Its clear that this beautiful lady did. Stop the partying and think about the future.

  26. Fernella Cordle August 25, 2016 at 5:19 am

    Well done! I hope you continue to have a marvelous experience! Good to do travel when you are young and your mind is open….makes for a more open-minded view of the world and the different cultures. Enjoy yuhself


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